10 No-No's When Contacting a Blogger
Dec
19
2008
By Blake Poutra

Have you been trying to contact a blogger and not able to get the end result you are looking for? There is definitely a right way and a wrong way to contact a blogger within your industry. I previously did a guest spot for Design Shard that covered the Top 10 Tips to Get Exposure from a Blogger and that was only half the story. Since I already covered the right things to do, it makes sense for me to follow up with what you shouldn’t do. The following list is 10 No-No’s When Contacting a Blogger:
1. Don’t insult the blogger.
If flattery goes a long way, then insults go even further…but in the wrong direction. Insulting a blogger can give them the opportunity shed negative light on you and/or your company in front of the same audience that you wanted to be featured in front of.
2. Don’t send a mass email.
This is a big pet peeve. Bloggers don’t want to regurgitate the same information as the rest of the blogging community and will avoid mass e-mails to ensure they don’t. By the way, mass e-mails are very easy to spot.
3. Watch your punctuation and grammar.
Sloppiness is a big turnoff. If I get e-mail that is poorly or hastily written, I’ll delete it without even finishing it.
4. Don’t insist on anything.
Be polite and ask for help or a review or opinion. If you get rejected, take the time to thank the blogger for the consideration.
5. Don’t get pushy or complain.
This one goes without saying. Beggers can’t be choosers. *Note, there is no shame in begging for exposure; it’s called hustling.
6. Don’t be a troll in the comments section.
Every blogger reads the comments and some consider that to be the pulse of their site. It is one thing to disagree and yet another to ALWAYS disagree. Picking apart a post that a blogger has spent a long time creating can leave a bad taste in their mouth.
7. Bring your A+ game.
Sometimes you only get one good shot. Provide examples of your best work, or best angle on a story. Second rate work or information is not worthy of the blogger’s time.
8. Don’t be irrelevant.
Make sure that the blogger you are pitching caters to your audience. Don’t go to a thimble collector and expect them to feature your design portfolio.
9. Don’t just opt me in to your marketing campaigns.
Don’t get me wrong, marketing lists certainly have their place on the Internet. But only when opted in, and not forced in.
10. Don’t contact me in a way that you wouldn’t want to be contacted.
Remember the golden rule. It works on the internet as much as it does in the real world.
Are you guilty of some of these gaffes? It’s not the end of the world if you are, just be aware that some of these could be the reason you aren’t getting the blog love.
About the Author
Blake Poutra works for You Design It, where you can design t-shirts online. He maintains a t-shirt design blog and is a fan of all things design.
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December 19th, 2008 at 5:15 pm
nice one post! pretty simple points listed out, but really useful to think about more.
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December 19th, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Nice one, ive also linked to this post from your guest post on design shard.
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December 20th, 2008 at 12:25 pm
Good points!
I’ve only recently become aware of the importance of networking, and this series has been a good checklist to make sure I’m not coming off like a tool when making introductions.
Thanks!
-Jason
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December 26th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Amen especially to the first one.
I was contacted and INSULTED by an individual who had the audacity to even request to follow me on twitter (I am private on twitter). I had to get FUGLY (UGLY) on them and tell them to STEP off. I appreciate this blog post! I have to give a hug to @10000words for posting your post on twitter.
Thank you again!
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December 26th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
Hi Blake,
This is a nice list. I’d like to add one more – Don’t plagiarize from the blogger. It’s not a good idea:
http://crm2.typepad.com/brents_blog/2008/12/plagiarism-20-a.html
Thanks for putting this together!
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December 26th, 2008 at 2:41 pm
Great tips! I would only add my big pet peeve – when the request e-mail starts with “we love your blog” – from people who have never previously posted a comment and, often, are presenting submissions for products that don’t fit. It’s doubly obvious that they haven’t read it!
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December 29th, 2008 at 6:58 am
Some great tips there, Blake. I’ve had to spend a fair chunk of time responding to marketing emails, asking to be removed from lists I never opted into. Quite the pet peeve.
All the very best for 2009!
December 29th, 2008 at 2:48 pm
Thanks for the comment love guys/gals. I know that these were pretty simple and logical, but it just helps to be reminded of them sometimes.
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November 10th, 2009 at 10:30 am
Great. These are just as valuable as all the ‘dos’ .
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